I received some very nice emails and facebook messages about the last blog, so thank you for that. Turns out many of us are thinking about new ways to deal with the energy vampire I described in the last blog. My mother, God bless her, reads my blogs regularly and had the following to say about it. I don’t ordinarily share her emails so I hope she doesn’t mind on this one, in this case it is information that I felt should be shared with my tiny reader-base. Plus I get the bonus of a brand new blog without actually having to write anything!
I wanted to comment on your Energy Vampire blog. By the way, Eckart Tolle is working on a very high level, I am really happy you have found him.
I was taught about energy vampires this winter, and I will share with you what I learned. It is all a matter of energy frequency. If you are resonating on the same level as the other person, you are connected (energy entrains) and they can draw on your energy. If you keep your energy field clear and filled with light, they cannot. I was told that this is the difference between sympathy (aligning with the others energy) and compassion (seeing the issue, offering help, but not aligning with it).
This is what happened to me: A man I know well who is a really bad alcoholic totally drained me twice. I could hardly walk out of X store [Raffnote: she works in a new age book store doing readings]. Then he came into my reading room at X on another occasion, and I thought; “oh no, now what do I do?” He tried every trick in the book to get me to align with him, he kept saying things like; “I am so bad, punish me, yell at me, I need help blah blah…” All the while I was being guided to stay in a higher frequency. I said to him; “You know what you have to do, you know where the help is etc.” and I never aligned with him. Finally he left, and the guides said that was the difference between sympathy and compassion.
People with powerful energy attract those who want and need energy. More often than not, they are not really aware that they are doing it. Often these people are being guided by low beings from the other side that want some sort of chaos to evolve because they feed on that (guy at bank). This is all part of the lower energy.
Keep your energy field clear by seeing the Light flow out from your high heart (above your heart) into the physical body, then the emotional body, then the mental body, and finally the spiritual body. Your whole energy field is then filled with light. You can set up something with your Guides that when you say “Clear” they will help you clear. I like to see a burst of bright light fill my energy field with the intention to clear. This always keeps you in an energy that the lower frequencies cannot enter. It doesn’t mean you can’t help someone who needs help, but you do it from your level and not theirs, that is you don’t enter in to the drama of the whole thing.
I am always aware of staying clear when in crowds etc. or somewhere where the energy level is low. A good way to work with someone like the bank guy would be to send him light as you stood there. You would probably feel it hit a brick wall, but maybe not.
The energy on the planet is getting very high, we are becoming more and more sensitive to energy. Those of the lower energy are feeling it also and many are struggling for their survival. The “old” is going down, Yay.
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Your Momz iz cool!
You have the coolest Mother. I've been reading the Tolle book recently; it's given me some ah-ha moments as to why I keep getting sucky people in my life over and over again…
thanks for this.